Hey Kiki,

I met this guy and he asked me out on my first day of a new school and then he dumped me on the second day. It hurt me a whole lot because he was very nice to me on that first day of school. I wonder if he will date me any more because now we are best friends and are very cool and we enjoy doing a lot of things together. We talk alot about personal things and the olny thing I think about is him. I dream about him and I just want to know if he will date me for a long time and we might have a life together? We are both 14.

I was just wondering if we will ever go out with each other because all I think and dream about is him. All I do is anything with him. I take a lot of tests to see if we are in love and it says it is love, but he won’t go out with me – but he dose stare at my you know whats. Anyway I was just wondering if he will ever go out with with me ever. He dosent even have a girlfriend. Well, thank you!

-Alana

Dear Alana,

I remember when I was your age. I had the same situation happen to me.

If he is still your friend, that means he truly cares about you.
Guys that age usually do not bother with someone if they are not interested in you at all. They go on to other girls and ignore you and do not want to hang around with you.
I think that you have a good chance, but this is what you must do to get him to pay attention to you. You must make him used to you, make him want to be around you, always ask him about himself and what is going on in his life. Become his best friend and confidant.
Then one day he will look at you and realize he can’t live without you!
Make sure you are not easy to get. Make sure he respects you. Do not get intimate with him, he will want what is hard for him to get. Be mysterious.
Let me know if this helps and keep me updated.
For now work on being his best friend he will come around.
Mwaahhh,
Kiki